Let me give it to you straight, straight like an arrow.
I’ve had these words stuck in my head for some time now. Lyrics from the titular Dears track I first heard in university, back when I would go home in the summer and watch The Wedge on Friday nights.
I know that’s awfully cynical to say, but I need proof that it is possible today.
I just wish I could accept that fact. I’m starting to wonder if that’s why I keep hearing the words in my head. It’s my subconscious reminding me, keeping me grounded.
It’s the same story, where guy sees girl, falls in love, and happily ever after. In between, there’s always the overused plot element of the guy winning over the girl by revealing himself and his feelings. After all, this alone is enough to win any girl over, regardless of whether she found him attractive or not, she was married or single, or he was the nerd and she was the cheerleader.
But love doesn’t exist in real life, as much as I want to believe that it does.
Not for me, anyway.
i dnt believe in it either,ive nvr met any1 i cnt live without i believe that love is infact comfort food 4 the weak n uninteligent im sorry bt ive been hurt too many times to knw that ppl r simply ammusd n want somethng different,a new toy it seems n now i truely do believe that power belongs 2 those who care less!!!!!!!n im a gifl soooo if im sayin this bwt love it shld make u think.….…
i may be cynical or jaded, but i believe that love is a fantasy.
we can talk big and say we’re somethin but unless we actually act on it and do it we’re nothin.
we all act on how we feel. if your coked up you’ll act coked up. if you feel tired, you’ll act tired. if you feel loose, drunk or goofy, youll act loose, drunk or goofy. but its been proved that if you act a certain way you’ll feel that way. you feel tired, act hyped. when it gets tough as urself what a healthy and fit person would do right now. then do it. boom, there’s your proof. there is no love, there are only proofs of love.
There must be such a thing as real love, because why are there so many fantastic songs and movies about it?
Just because it’s never happened to me doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
Or maybe it just lives for short moments of time, and that’s the reality of it.
Do u know which is the most powerful sexual organ in human body??? well its our brain. ya its right its ur fukin brain, everything boils down to your brain it can make you love or hate sumone or some time destroy u completely. so watever going in ur mind or brain i means loving,hating is result of chemical reaction happens in ur brain.. so i believe their no such thing as love. jst freakin chemical reaction that make us to do so.
i m frm india. htey say naah
“mind is ur best friend if u controls its but worst enemy if it controls you..!!
so friend dnt let ur mind to overcome your emotion.stop wasting ur time in doin love. do something worthy. take care
I think Love seems to be more about money then love. Let’s face it money may not buy love but thanks to the Kardatians and tv in general. Real housewives etc. Women’s independence and women making more money than men and wanting their men to make much more then them especially with this economy. It seems to be a so called man now is harder to be then it ever was before if that is the true definition of a man
I can’t say that I was or thought I was in love at one time.. My last girlfriend and I stayed together for 7yrs but we only saw each other 3days a week. Friday Saturday and Sunday.. But I think something went wrong with her feelings or maybe I gave her to much freedom to go out and she hooked up with an older man with a six figure income who was and still is seeing someone while she is dating him. I just don’t get it. But there is something weird going on in her head or maybe she figured this is the only way she will get what she wants.. everything at this point in my life really sucks and there unfortunately are no new prospects in this town. So I guess I need to come up with a new hobby or 2..
I know I didn’t love her but I did consider her my best friend and me hers but when you out right cheat on someone and then your confronted and still lie to that person even after he proves it to u what the he’ll kind of friend can that be…
It seems love is about material things more then anything else and I’m sorry today that if that’s what the women I seem to be attracted to want I guess that leaves me with nothing. Cause I will not spend what I can’t afford.. Credit cards need to be paid off not added to..
Guess I should of worked for wall street. Lol.
unfortunatly sometimes men are like that to. But more money does not equal happiness. Why do so many people think having more things or more expencive things means more than companionship? It sucks
I think we all want to believe there is love.…true soul mate cant go on without you love…
But I dont believe it.…
Love is a security blanket for a lot of people. Or should I say a lot of women.. Where is the males security it just seems to be one sided.. Man pays for everything but doesnt have the security.. Funny how that works..
There is no such thing as love in today’s society. It is just another form of insanity. For better or worse, in sickness and in health, til death do us part. Here are some hypotheticals. That is supposed to apply to how much money you have, or don’t have. Whether or not you are happy or sad that you cannot provide for the one you declare your love. If you are in good health or bad health. TO THE END! Best of all, who has more influence over your supposed love interest. You, or their friends. I am speaking from personal experience. It’s too much to ask of anyone to remain true to you if all they worship is money and materialism, your feelings are always going to be in at least second place. This country needs a reset.
P.S. Don’t marry someone that has broken their back and neck and expect them to be able to do what normal HEALTHY people can do.
No such thing. We as women are taught there is so we get married and we are put in our place. It’s a fairy tale that’s it
And the fairy tale lives on. Howard Stern has it right.. What people are really thinking.
I’m a teenager and I don’t belive in “love”. It’s not because i’ve had heartbreak, hell I’ve never even had a boyfriend! From the things I have heard and seen about it, I would not wish that unto myself. I like the idea of it, but not for myself.
Well,u c my whole 25 yrs of life i hav been trying to prove ppl dat lov exists, but the world proves me wrong, there is no such thing as love ‚at least not in this current world, its just a desire-driven world, if they hav the convincing and manipulation power to prove someone right is wrong, they win,u lose. I have tried loving ppl just as they are but it turns out, they backstab anytime. I hav broken all boundaries in this world (religion,looks,color,behaviour,etc) to try to b in a happy relation,not perfect but just normal.…but i hav broken my heart a dozen times .….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….now i just dont believe in love.IT JUST DOESNT EXIST !!
I Also dont blv in love either. There is no such a thing like Love, its jst need,
Someone don’t want to live alone, have its own need ‚which cant be fulfill alone, so he/she get in to relationship. in between if they find someone else who can fulfill their need better, they forget their ongoing relationship, go to that new person and start relationship with that new person, and named it as “LOVE”.
love is actually dependence or lust or both. anyone in a relationship is making it 99% harder to know there highest self and become enlightened