I’ve been invited to the wedding of a cousin I never knew existed until last week. Actually, there are three cousins I didn’t know about, because she has two sisters too. I didn’t even know that I had a fourth aunt until I suddenly came face to face with her as I walked into my grandmothers apartment at one point, and thought that she bared a close resemblance to my father. I don’t remember ever meeting her, although she claims to have held me as a baby, so I probably haven’t seen her in 20 odd years. My parents have never mentioned her, and have never brought me to meet her family before. Nevertheless, the wedding will be in a church at first, as a sort of western style, then held in a banquet hall in Chinese fashion. I don’t believe that I’ve ever attended a Chinese traditional wedding (that I can remember at least), so I’m looking forward to it.