Posts tagged with "Aaron"

New Year's '06

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Aaron and Karen’s annu­al New Years par­ty was a fun time in a relax­ing sense, much low­er-key than last year, with few­er peo­ple and casu­al clothes. I don’t believe there was any­one who felt out-of-place, which meant that one could eas­i­ly move from group to group with­out any feel­ings of intru­sion. So that I did­n’t have to wor­ry about catch­ing a bus home ear­ly, they lent me the use of their SUV for me to dri­ve home.

I’m espe­cial­ly pleased with this set of pho­tos. I think I was able to show the mood appro­pri­ate­ly, with­out over-expos­ing the flash too much. My two favourite are with Sarah in her scarf and with Aaron hand­ing the low­ball to Rob. The for­mer because of the pure chance that worked out in cap­tur­ing the moment along with the won­der­ful tex­ture of her scarf, and the lat­ter because of how strong the two sets of hands look, like a firm hand­shake with­out touch­ing.

The Inconclusive End

Over break­fast, a gen­er­ous gorg­ing of sausage links, over easy, and hashed browns, the real­iza­tion dawns on me that out of the eight peo­ple seat­ed, four of us have worked in the same office.

In fact, three of us had the same job; while Aaron was work­ing as a devel­op­er, Pat was brought in to replace Jacques, and I was hired when Pat left. What a small world. That’s how Pat and I met Aaron, how Aaron met Jacques, and it was only on that day, four years lat­er, that Pat was intro­duced to Jacques.

Now we can sit around a break­fast table, fill­ing our­selves with greasy food and caf­feine in prepa­ra­tion for a week­end of gam­ing.

How long ago those days seem, work­ing in an unmo­ti­vat­ed gov­ern­ment office, dat­ing some­one I thought I want­ed to make my wife. I remarked to Pat how fun­ny it was to believe back then that I knew what I want­ed in life, and with a smirk, he asked me, “You think you know what you want now?”.

The ques­tion was rhetor­i­cal, of course. Sometimes Pat knows me bet­ter than I know myself. In his way, he was remind­ing me that even now, after all my con­tem­pla­tion and all my con­clu­sions, I still may not have fig­ured that out yet.

Do I real­ly know what I want?

Not real­ly. In my career, my rela­tion­ships, my short-term life I can say that there’s a path I’m mov­ing towards, but I also know that this will most like­ly change. As I learn and grow, as new goals are met and made, what I want changes too.

And per­haps being sure of this is what I real­ly want.

Sandbanks '04

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Went to Sandbanks on the week­end. The weath­er was good, but danced from one extreme to the oth­er along the course of the day. It was Trolley, Tomacini, Kate, Adam, and Eric on one site, Aaron, Karen, Nick, Alison, and me on anoth­er about 20 paces away. It was quite a dif­fer­ent crew from the one I’m used to, but def­i­nite­ly the one I was most com­fort­able around. These are the peo­ple who nev­er ask for mon­ey, who talk to you like you’re fam­i­ly, whom you can depend on to find some orange juice if you’re hav­ing a bad trip. We only got in trou­ble one night, but we were admit­ted­ly loud. Our attempts to thwart such prob­lems by intro­duc­ing our­selves to neigh­bour­ing camp­sites proved fruit­less, as we were informed that the noise we were pro­duc­ing was being heard in a larg­er radius than expect­ed. I took up posi­tion as the token Asian guy (keepin it cool) and Adam resumed his usu­al role as the token homo­sex­u­al (keepin it fresh). The week­end went by quick­ly.


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Aside from steak, the best part of camp­ing is the camp­fire. When the decid­u­ous trees flick­er orange and the stars nor­mal­ly hid­den by the city light show them­selves against the navy blue sky. There’s some­thing about the heat and the atmos­phere that puts the mind at ease. Nobody cares if one speaks too much or too lit­tle, puts on some head­phones and lis­tens to music, intox­i­cates, or pulls out a book and reads. It’s where every­one can do their own thing, togeth­er.


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Sandbanks has an amaz­ing beach with large sand dunes, which makes it one of the most pop­u­lar camp­grounds, as well as one of the hard­est to reserve a site on (Trolley and I had this week­end booked since January). The sand is extreme­ly soft and smooth, and the beach end­ed up being the only refuge for a loud group, espe­cial­ly at night. It’s also where Adam was paid to mar­ket Gatorade to the homo­sex­u­al pop­u­la­tion (and the fun­ny thing is, Adam did his absolute best not to look gay in the pho­to­graph, but suc­ceeds only in the doing the exact oppo­site.) The cap­tion for the mag­a­zines would be, “ALL I DID WAS DRINK THIS GATORADE AND HOT GUYS STARTED LICKING STUFF OFF MY LEGS!”.


Aaron made his con­tri­bu­tion to the Ministry of Silly Walks.


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At one point, Aaron and I had to steal some fire­wood from the oth­er site. We decide to give them some flow­ers in return as a joke. Aaron just hap­pened to pass by a bunch of daisies, and plucked them from the stem as we were leav­ing our area. Unfortunately, the entire plant became unroot­ed with almost no effort, from the flow­ers to the roots. After a quick twig-splint used to fix a man­gled stem, we plant­ed the daisies in the mid­dle of the oth­er camp­site. They stood out con­sid­er­ably, since they were over four feet in height, with noth­ing else around but grav­el and dirt. In return, Adam plant­ed a lit­tle vod­ka gar­den out­side our tents.

Aaron's Birthday '04

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On Saturday we end­ed up at the Highlander Pub, appar­ent­ly the only place in the city to get good hag­gis, as a belat­ed birth­day cel­e­bra­tion for Aaron. We con­vinced the man­ag­er, a black man in a kilt with a brow bar, to give us three tables. We took part in the home­land toast, in which the wait­ress­es hand out free shots of scotch every day at nine and every­one drinks to the ring of a bell.

Trolley, Nick, and Aaron par­tic­i­pat­ed in some speed drink­ing com­pe­ti­tions. None of us are heavy drinkers; rather, we’re on the heavy side of casu­al drinkers, so being able to down a mug as quick­ly as this was wor­thy of a OMGDIDYOUSEETHATWHERESMYPROPS?!?

Usually It's Dress Shirts And Sweaters

From one of my inside sources, I found out that the hir­ing freeze at the old gov­ern­ment job might be on hia­tus and they’re look­ing to fill some CS‑2 posi­tions. Aaron and I con­tact­ed our old employ­ers to get togeth­er for some lunch tomor­row, and they end­ed up mak­ing reser­va­tions for 14 at the Mayflower. Aaron and I both know that this could be an impor­tant lunch, so we’ll be putting on the prep­py clothes. We actu­al­ly had to dis­cuss what we’d be wear­ing, since we dress so sim­i­lar­ly.