Plans cancelled three nights in a row. Boo.

Plans cancelled three nights in a row. Boo.
When you live with a vegan, you learn that McDonalds French fries contain milk. Sorta scary. And yet, here I am eating them.
Music has always been a big part of my life, so it’s strange to consider the fact that I only seriously took up an instrument the year I’m turning 30, which I generally consider late to be starting anything new.
I used to play piano and flute, but that was never really my choice. For the former, it was more of my mom wanting me to be a good Chinese boy, and me not wanting to let her down. When it came to the latter, my school had a strong emphasis on arts, and either visual arts or music were mandatory. I chose music1, and played the flute; far from ideal for a teenager going through puberty and an identity crisis.
I bought my first ukulele a few months ago, and I don’t think I’ve stopped playing since.
Jammin’ in my jammies. With what may possibly be an erection.
Photo by Jess.
So much of my life has been filled by those four little strings. It’s an entirely new medium I’m still exploring, a muscle I’d yet to flex, a way of expressing myself that’s so unlike any of my other outlets.
I get pains in my fingers and wrists from playing too much, so I structure my life around the breaks; doing laundry, writing, cleaning my room, sorting my paperwork until the tingling or pinching goes away. The pads of my fingers are dead. I used to fall asleep thinking of her — now I work out scale patterns and chords across the fretboard in my head until I pass out. I even decided to make the ultimate commitment and grow out the nails on my strumming hand because the longer they get, the more pleased I am with the sound (and I find both long nails and asymmetry absolutely disgusting).
It’s come to the point where I’d rather play ukulele than play games, or go out, or talk to people. I love playing so much that I enjoy it even though I’m still no good at it.
I turn 30 in three months, and music is my hot hot bath, my dead end, and my girlfriend.
One of the costs of filming a wedding: http://twitpic.com/2dtp66
No longer dolled up. #shower
All dressed up, and no place to go. #cancelledplans
My first bonsai, courtesy of a surprise visit from Rob and Mel. http://twitpic.com/2di3ky
I was supposed to hang out with Jesse last weekend. We were going to jam and talk and throw around ideas, and I was really looking forward to it because we always seem to be doing something when we’re together instead of just chillin.
See, it’s right here on his schedule, between Floors and Dinner.

Unfortunately, I developed my annual case of strep throat that day and had to stay away from everyone.
Then, on Friday as I was going back through our e-mail correspondence, I realized that Jesse inviting me to play ukulele meant playing a house party on Saturday. We met up about two hours before we were on and had a very quick rehearsal to work out some parts without Nic being able to back us up, as well as extra bits and pieces of songs I figured out over the week. Being so rushed was probably a good thing; it kept my mind off the nervousness.
Turns out it was an outdoor gig playing to a group of hipsters at a barbecue, and we were opening. It didn’t go terribly well. At one point in the middle of Write Protected I screwed up the strumming so badly that we had to stop the song and restart, but we quickly picked up on a count of four and went on without another hitch. Jesse remarked that it was good practice for next time, because problems come up that you never think of when you’re in a new environment.
This time it was a tuning peg that somehow got knocked in the middle of the set. I only discovered this once the song had started — and I was the only one playing so I couldn’t stop. It must have been off by an entire semi-tone cause it totally messed up my senses and I had a hard time telling if I was even playing the right chords. It was also night by the time our set ended, and I had a hard time seeing the frets, which only added to the confusion.
Note to self: strum once to before each song to make sure the instrument is in tune.
I did, however, learn from the last show to bring a side-table to use as a stepping stool. Usually, I sit when practicing, but at the 160 Workshops show I had to stand; not being used to the posture meant I was constantly adjusting the uke in the arm between verses and coming in late in the bar as a result. I brought a little Ikea side-table this time, and it worked really well.
Even with all the glitches, as rushed and under-rehearsed as we were, it was a fantastic time and a great experience.
The next set was in the basement, with a girl and guy looking like they were kids dressed up and pretending to be Ziggy Stardust, singing to generic electronica. And people were loving it in their slow-nodding, hipster kind of way, although the weed and booze may have helped (Audra would later remark to me that it was hard to tell how into it people were cause of how cool everyone was trying to act).
I also missed seeing a very drunk Tina corner Jesse. I could totally see this being her scene.
Check out Audra sporting her stylish Hurley cap.
Jesse was being interviewed later that night and also wanted to stay to see Matt play, so the girls and I headed to grab a bite to eat. Audra bought us all pizza and drinks at a nearby pizzeria, which had the BEST CRUST I’ve ever tasted.
Before the end of the night, in a good mood and feeling safe, I admitted to Em my crush on her boyfriend. She took it well.
I love how John catches up with me in between his plans.
Thank goodness it’s my last day on antibiotic medication, aka diarrhea pills.
What’s worse? Finding out the red vinegar I’ve been using expired 3 years or ago, or the fact that it was only six months since I bought it.
I sneeze so hard, I can hear the echo in the sound hole of my ukulele. #chinesesneezer
What happens when you let your cat lick the leftover soup from a can of clam chowder: http://twitpic.com/2bkxed
Frédéric and Misun were briefly in Canada. They went on a short cruise with Misun’s parents and made a quick stop in Ottawa so naturally I took the chance to see them. It was a lovely evening for a barbecue and eating out in the sun.
It’s so interesting to hear about everything they’re doing with their little art gallery studio, adding to my excitement of visiting them in a few months.
Seeing the new baby. Mommy barely looks like she was pregnant, and Frédéric looks like he’s been eating well in France.
Miric tests out the paper airplane launcher I bought the boys. It was one of the few non-violent toys I could find in Toys R Us.