A social exper­i­ment to get peo­ple to open up about them­selves, because it’s our lit­tle idio­syn­crasies that make us unique. Maybe peo­ple will learn that they’re not alone in their inti­mate ways as well. In the process, it’s also a way for me to open up more, as I seem to be too care­ful about watch­ing what I say here in recent years, and not writ­ing with the same hon­esty that used to char­ac­ter­ize my entries.

For every per­son who adds a com­ment with the most pri­vate thing they’re will­ing to admit here, between now and Sunday night, I will (try) to add a pri­vate detail about myself. Include a name instead of remain­ing anony­mous¹, be as hon­est and open as pos­si­ble, and only one “thing” per per­son please. I don’t have that many secrets. Or do I?

I’ll start every­one off with a bonus one:

I hate mak­ing my bed. I get it messy (I do a lot of toss­ing and turn­ing) in another 16 hours, so I don’t see the point of mak­ing it. I clean my house in gen­eral when peo­ple are com­ing over because I want them to be com­fort­able, but the bed is a dif­fer­ent story. The only rea­son why I make it is because I feel self-conscious about it, not because I care if it makes my guests feel more com­fort­able. This makes me feel like a phony.

1. Without some sort of iden­tity to bind a detail to, there’s no point to the exper­i­ment. [↑]