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		<title>By: Darryl</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-311816</link>
		<dc:creator>Darryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 16:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It seems love is about material things more then anything else and I&#039;m sorry today that if that&#039;s what the women I seem to be attracted to want I guess that leaves me with nothing.   Cause I will not spend what I can&#039;t afford..  Credit cards need to be paid off not added to..

Guess I should of worked for wall street. Lol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems love is about material things more then anything else and I’m sorry today that if that’s what the women I seem to be attracted to want I guess that leaves me with nothing.   Cause I will not spend what I can’t afford..  Credit cards need to be paid off not added to..</p>
<p>Guess I should of worked for wall street. Lol.</p>
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		<title>By: Darryl</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-311814</link>
		<dc:creator>Darryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 15:49:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think Love seems to be more about money then love.  Let&#039;s face it money may not buy love but thanks to the Kardatians and tv in general.   Real housewives etc.  Women&#039;s independence and women making more money than men and wanting  their men to make much more then them especially with this economy.  It seems to be a so called man now is harder to be then it ever was before if that is the true definition of a man     


I can&#039;t say that I was or thought I was in love at one time..  My last girlfriend and I stayed together for 7yrs but we only saw each other 3days a week.  Friday Saturday and Sunday..   But I think something went wrong with her feelings or maybe I gave her to much freedom to go out and she hooked up with an older man with a six figure income who was and still is seeing someone while she is dating him.   I just don&#039;t get it.  But there is something weird going on in her head or maybe she figured this  is the only way she will get what she wants..   everything at this point in my life really sucks and there unfortunately are no new prospects in this town.   So I guess I need to come up with a new hobby or 2..

I know I didn&#039;t love her but I did consider her my best friend and me hers but when you out right cheat on someone and then your confronted and still lie to that person even after he proves it to u what the he&#039;ll kind of friend can that be...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Love seems to be more about money then love.  Let’s face it money may not buy love but thanks to the Kardatians and tv in general.   Real housewives etc.  Women’s independence and women making more money than men and wanting  their men to make much more then them especially with this economy.  It seems to be a so called man now is harder to be then it ever was before if that is the true definition of a man     </p>
<p>I can’t say that I was or thought I was in love at one time..  My last girlfriend and I stayed together for 7yrs but we only saw each other 3days a week.  Friday Saturday and Sunday..   But I think something went wrong with her feelings or maybe I gave her to much freedom to go out and she hooked up with an older man with a six figure income who was and still is seeing someone while she is dating him.   I just don’t get it.  But there is something weird going on in her head or maybe she figured this  is the only way she will get what she wants..   everything at this point in my life really sucks and there unfortunately are no new prospects in this town.   So I guess I need to come up with a new hobby or 2..</p>
<p>I know I didn’t love her but I did consider her my best friend and me hers but when you out right cheat on someone and then your confronted and still lie to that person even after he proves it to u what the he’ll kind of friend can that be…</p>
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		<title>By: sujit</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-308781</link>
		<dc:creator>sujit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2011 17:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do u know which is the most powerful  sexual organ in human body??? well its our brain. ya its right  its ur fukin brain, everything boils down to your brain it can make you love or hate sumone or some time destroy u completely. so watever going in ur mind or brain i  means loving,hating is result of chemical reaction  happens in ur brain.. so i believe   their no such thing as love. jst freakin chemical reaction that make us to do so.
i m frm india. htey say naah
 &quot;mind is ur best friend if u controls  its but worst enemy if it controls you..!!
 so friend dnt let ur mind to overcome your emotion.stop wasting ur time in doin love. do something worthy. take care</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do u know which is the most powerful  sexual organ in human body??? well its our brain. ya its right  its ur fukin brain, everything boils down to your brain it can make you love or hate sumone or some time destroy u completely. so watever going in ur mind or brain i  means loving,hating is result of chemical reaction  happens in ur brain.. so i believe   their no such thing as love. jst freakin chemical reaction that make us to do so.<br />
i m frm india. htey say naah<br />
 “mind is ur best friend if u controls  its but worst enemy if it controls you..!!<br />
 so friend dnt let ur mind to overcome your emotion.stop wasting ur time in doin love. do something worthy. take care</p>
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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-308512</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 19:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There must be such a thing as real love, because why are there so many fantastic songs and movies about it?  
Just because it&#039;s never happened to me doesn&#039;t mean it doesn&#039;t exist.
Or maybe it just lives for short moments of time, and that&#039;s the reality of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There must be such a thing as real love, because why are there so many fantastic songs and movies about it?<br />
Just because it’s never happened to me doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.<br />
Or maybe it just lives for short moments of time, and that’s the reality of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-253454</link>
		<dc:creator>Jonathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Apr 2011 06:25:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i may be cynical or jaded, but i believe that love is a fantasy.
we can talk big and say we&#039;re somethin but unless we actually act on it and do it we&#039;re nothin.
we all act on how we feel. if your coked up you&#039;ll act coked up. if you feel tired, you&#039;ll act tired. if you feel loose, drunk or goofy, youll act loose, drunk or goofy. but its been proved that if you act a certain way you&#039;ll feel that way. you feel tired, act hyped. when it gets tough as urself what a healthy and fit person would do right now. then do it. boom, there&#039;s your proof. there is no love, there are only proofs of love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i may be cynical or jaded, but i believe that love is a fantasy.<br />
we can talk big and say we’re somethin but unless we actually act on it and do it we’re nothin.<br />
we all act on how we feel. if your coked up you’ll act coked up. if you feel tired, you’ll act tired. if you feel loose, drunk or goofy, youll act loose, drunk or goofy. but its been proved that if you act a certain way you’ll feel that way. you feel tired, act hyped. when it gets tough as urself what a healthy and fit person would do right now. then do it. boom, there’s your proof. there is no love, there are only proofs of love.</p>
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		<title>By: ragheema</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-208353</link>
		<dc:creator>ragheema</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:36:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i dnt believe in it either,ive nvr met any1 i cnt live without i believe that love is infact comfort food 4 the weak n uninteligent im sorry bt ive been hurt too many times to knw that ppl r simply ammusd n want somethng different,a new toy it seems n now i truely do believe that power belongs 2 those who care less!!!!!!!n im a gifl soooo if im sayin this bwt love it shld make u think........</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i dnt believe in it either,ive nvr met any1 i cnt live without i believe that love is infact comfort food 4 the weak n uninteligent im sorry bt ive been hurt too many times to knw that ppl r simply ammusd n want somethng different,a new toy it seems n now i truely do believe that power belongs 2 those who care less!!!!!!!n im a gifl soooo if im sayin this bwt love it shld make u think.….…</p>
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		<title>By: Ro</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-176621</link>
		<dc:creator>Ro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 18:36:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am married for 18 years with 2 young kids.  I don&#039;t believe in love in this time and age or maybe in humans.  If love is absolute understand, trust, and sacrafic and (you fill in the blank), then we can&#039;t acheive that, especially here and now.  If love is sacrafic, I don&#039;t like to do it for anyone that much and I rarely meet people that do.  If love is understanding, then I would do better to understand others more, not judge so much and then I maybe could believe in love?  If love is trust, then maybe we&#039;ll all have to keep our word more, because not keeping our word is a dying trait.  I believe that we really enjoy people&#039;s company and we NEED people and most people equate need with love.  The more dependent you are, the more you &quot;love&quot;.  I think there are a lot of emotions that get involved with us humans, like jealousy, envy, hate..., which keeps us from acheiving love.  I seem to like my husband on a scale; some days I don&#039;t know why I married him, other days I am so glad he&#039;s in my life and understands me.  He let&#039;s me be me, and that&#039;s when I am happy with him.  When he&#039;s critical and pointing out things, that is when I don&#039;t like him so much.  He says he loves me no matter what I do.  Bullshit, if I go cheat on him, will he still love me? If I say, here, you take the kids in the divorce instead of fighting for custody, is he really going to respect me??  When I let him or the family down there is tension in our marriage; when I don&#039;t do what I say I am going to do.  And visa versa.  So, I think for people to be happy is to be diciplined and to keep their word.  When you don&#039;t, you let people down and create hurt.  That hurt passes on to the next person and then the next person.  We, as a society, over the years have slowly let our discipline and &quot;word&quot; slip with each other.  It&#039;s selfish.  I&#039;m not a religious nut, I&#039;m not religious at all, but the more all of us are selfish, the more barbaric our society will be and the further we will be from anything called love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am married for 18 years with 2 young kids.  I don’t believe in love in this time and age or maybe in humans.  If love is absolute understand, trust, and sacrafic and (you fill in the blank), then we can’t acheive that, especially here and now.  If love is sacrafic, I don’t like to do it for anyone that much and I rarely meet people that do.  If love is understanding, then I would do better to understand others more, not judge so much and then I maybe could believe in love?  If love is trust, then maybe we’ll all have to keep our word more, because not keeping our word is a dying trait.  I believe that we really enjoy people’s company and we NEED people and most people equate need with love.  The more dependent you are, the more you “love”.  I think there are a lot of emotions that get involved with us humans, like jealousy, envy, hate…, which keeps us from acheiving love.  I seem to like my husband on a scale; some days I don’t know why I married him, other days I am so glad he’s in my life and understands me.  He let’s me be me, and that’s when I am happy with him.  When he’s critical and pointing out things, that is when I don’t like him so much.  He says he loves me no matter what I do.  Bullshit, if I go cheat on him, will he still love me? If I say, here, you take the kids in the divorce instead of fighting for custody, is he really going to respect me??  When I let him or the family down there is tension in our marriage; when I don’t do what I say I am going to do.  And visa versa.  So, I think for people to be happy is to be diciplined and to keep their word.  When you don’t, you let people down and create hurt.  That hurt passes on to the next person and then the next person.  We, as a society, over the years have slowly let our discipline and “word” slip with each other.  It’s selfish.  I’m not a religious nut, I’m not religious at all, but the more all of us are selfish, the more barbaric our society will be and the further we will be from anything called love.</p>
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		<title>By: Jackie K.</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-79040</link>
		<dc:creator>Jackie K.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 03:46:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I beleive you.

Love is something men came up with in order to &quot;sweep&quot; women off their feet, and well.... sleep with them. they don&#039;t give if you are nice, or whatever, they just want woman&#039;s bodies. trust me, the real friends(in boys/men) are the ones who actually do shit with their lives.. and don&#039;t have any girls that are friends. in my opinion anyways.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I beleive you.</p>
<p>Love is something men came up with in order to “sweep” women off their feet, and well.… sleep with them. they don’t give if you are nice, or whatever, they just want woman’s bodies. trust me, the real friends(in boys/men) are the ones who actually do shit with their lives.. and don’t have any girls that are friends. in my opinion anyways.</p>
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		<title>By: the true legend killer</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-34355</link>
		<dc:creator>the true legend killer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 02:18:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i came to put an end to the question of the million dollars...and the answer is no.love,or what you call love is not real.the love for others is not real,the love for your family is not real.love is just a lie that mommy and daddy told you all because they were raised to believe in it.your parents do not really love you,think about it,but think far beyond your beliefs,use common sense..your father and mother only care about you and worry about you because they use you to become more popular before other parents.why do you think they like to brag about your accomplishments to others.reason number 2,they were forced to raise you,because if they didnt,they would spend some time behind bars for child abuse...they count the seconds until you become old enough and you get out of the house and become your own problem,you can ask them,and they will lie,to themselves...they do these things subconsiously.When you like someone,you dont fall in love,you like the person because you want to get your freak on with her or him.you tell them´´i love you´´but that is just another expression for lets do R rated stuff.love is not an emotion its just a lie the humanity is forced to believe...but i have awakened,im not blinded by those lies anymore.to put it simple,what you call love is just the animal need of a human to find a mate and reproduce,there are no magic or unicorns involved.i could go on with this for hours,but i got better things to do.and to you all going´´what an emo´´let me tell you one thing,im not one of those depressive pathetic excuses of human beigns that like to feel pain.ill rather be the one inflicting the pain.so my last words to you are..keep lying to yourselves,i dont care.im outta that dilema...love is another legend that was killed by me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i came to put an end to the question of the million dollars…and the answer is no.love,or what you call love is not real.the love for others is not real,the love for your family is not real.love is just a lie that mommy and daddy told you all because they were raised to believe in it.your parents do not really love you,think about it,but think far beyond your beliefs,use common sense..your father and mother only care about you and worry about you because they use you to become more popular before other parents.why do you think they like to brag about your accomplishments to others.reason number 2,they were forced to raise you,because if they didnt,they would spend some time behind bars for child abuse…they count the seconds until you become old enough and you get out of the house and become your own problem,you can ask them,and they will lie,to themselves…they do these things subconsiously.When you like someone,you dont fall in love,you like the person because you want to get your freak on with her or him.you tell them´´i love you´´but that is just another expression for lets do R rated stuff.love is not an emotion its just a lie the humanity is forced to believe…but i have awakened,im not blinded by those lies anymore.to put it simple,what you call love is just the animal need of a human to find a mate and reproduce,there are no magic or unicorns involved.i could go on with this for hours,but i got better things to do.and to you all going´´what an emo´´let me tell you one thing,im not one of those depressive pathetic excuses of human beigns that like to feel pain.ill rather be the one inflicting the pain.so my last words to you are..keep lying to yourselves,i dont care.im outta that dilema…love is another legend that was killed by me.</p>
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		<title>By: Anti-Love</title>
		<link>http://equivocality.com/2009/01/04/there-is-no-such-thing-as-love/#comment-30056</link>
		<dc:creator>Anti-Love</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 04:57:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think love exisits. I think people are scared to live on their own and so they need to have a relationship to feel validated. I also blame instincts to need to be social. I think it is perfectly healthy to be alone if that&#039;s what you really want. Some people, like myself, don&#039;t enjoy the feeling of being tied and restricted. It&#039;s a complete pain in the long run that, in the end, might as well not happen. The world is filled with divorce now of days and that is a clear sign that love does not exist as far as loving a non-relative relationship goes.

Seriously, think about it. You &quot;fall in love&quot; with someone and you get married (and most likely over-looking all the skeletons in their closet or stuffing yours into a suitcase labeled &quot;from mom&quot;). Now you&#039;re stuck and can&#039;t just leave when you want to without a mass amount of money spent, argument, and, in some cases, something extremely illegal. But if you decide to stay, you have kids. That means you have more people to support and you get attacted to them. Well what if your spouse decides they hate your guts? Then comes the divorce and then the kids being hurt in the custody battle and arrangement. Then you have to start all over but never completely the way you were because a piece of you is broken because you decided to be stupid and involve yourself with something trivial.

It all ends in heart-break, my friends. Romantic/Passionate love and relationships are worthless. The only people worth loving is your family. Save yourself the grief.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don’t think love exisits. I think people are scared to live on their own and so they need to have a relationship to feel validated. I also blame instincts to need to be social. I think it is perfectly healthy to be alone if that’s what you really want. Some people, like myself, don’t enjoy the feeling of being tied and restricted. It’s a complete pain in the long run that, in the end, might as well not happen. The world is filled with divorce now of days and that is a clear sign that love does not exist as far as loving a non-relative relationship goes.</p>
<p>Seriously, think about it. You “fall in love” with someone and you get married (and most likely over-looking all the skeletons in their closet or stuffing yours into a suitcase labeled “from mom”). Now you’re stuck and can’t just leave when you want to without a mass amount of money spent, argument, and, in some cases, something extremely illegal. But if you decide to stay, you have kids. That means you have more people to support and you get attacted to them. Well what if your spouse decides they hate your guts? Then comes the divorce and then the kids being hurt in the custody battle and arrangement. Then you have to start all over but never completely the way you were because a piece of you is broken because you decided to be stupid and involve yourself with something trivial.</p>
<p>It all ends in heart-break, my friends. Romantic/Passionate love and relationships are worthless. The only people worth loving is your family. Save yourself the grief.</p>
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