Comments on: Time vs. Forgiveness http://equivocality.com/2008/04/19/time-vs-forgiveness/ To be equivocal is to truly live. Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:14:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jeff http://equivocality.com/2008/04/19/time-vs-forgiveness/#comment-25795 Jeff Wed, 23 Apr 2008 03:52:25 +0000 http://equivocality.com/?p=1541#comment-25795 Memories being able to sustain you on a desert island is such a great way to put it. To me, forgiving through the hurt doesn't make sense. It seems contradictory. Like putting your hand on a hot stove and getting burned, then doing it again. Why put yourself out there to get hurt again? Memories being able to sustain you on a desert island is such a great way to put it.

To me, forgiving through the hurt doesn’t make sense. It seems contradictory. Like putting your hand on a hot stove and getting burned, then doing it again. Why put yourself out there to get hurt again?

]]> By: Xibee http://equivocality.com/2008/04/19/time-vs-forgiveness/#comment-25787 Xibee Wed, 23 Apr 2008 01:38:03 +0000 http://equivocality.com/?p=1541#comment-25787 The mundane we write off, but I agree, my memories would sustain me well if I were on a desert island or Mars or something.... very vivid in both directions, for better or worse. I have learned to look at the hurt and forgive through it anyway, but it is not something that creates a stable, upright, strong person (at least not for me). Everyone THINKS you are strong, but inside there is still a crumpled child. Then when you actually scream, "BUT I'M A CRUMPLED CHILD BECAUSE OF YOU!", everyone suddenly looks at you like sing jing bing!? WTF? and they really don't believe you're serious. The mundane we write off, but I agree, my memories would sustain me well if I were on a desert island or Mars or something.… very vivid in both directions, for better or worse.

I have learned to look at the hurt and forgive through it anyway, but it is not something that creates a stable, upright, strong person (at least not for me). Everyone THINKS you are strong, but inside there is still a crumpled child. Then when you actually scream, “BUT I’M A CRUMPLED CHILD BECAUSE OF YOU!”, everyone suddenly looks at you like sing jing bing!? WTF? and they really don’t believe you’re serious.

]]> By: Jeff http://equivocality.com/2008/04/19/time-vs-forgiveness/#comment-25700 Jeff Mon, 21 Apr 2008 11:45:22 +0000 http://equivocality.com/?p=1541#comment-25700 For certain things — such as history, politics, and geography — my memory is also terrible. I guess these subjects don't mean as much to me as my everyday experiences. As you say, they're a special room in my head. For certain things — such as history, politics, and geography — my memory is also terrible. I guess these subjects don’t mean as much to me as my everyday experiences. As you say, they’re a special room in my head.

]]> By: Pearl http://equivocality.com/2008/04/19/time-vs-forgiveness/#comment-25649 Pearl Sun, 20 Apr 2008 16:50:44 +0000 http://equivocality.com/?p=1541#comment-25649 hm, don't think the same is true for me. my memory is comical-level poor. but hurts are a special room in the head. lots of food for thought there. hm, don’t think the same is true for me. my memory is comical-level poor. but hurts are a special room in the head.

lots of food for thought there.

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