Comments on: Letter To An Ex-Girlfriend: Bronwen

By: shabs

shabs — Thu, 15 May 2008 21:25:20 +0000

my heart goes out 2 u. i`m in a committed relationship where there is more love than anything physical. we have bin dating 4 4 years and even we have ups and downs like any other couple we have communicate all the time. i know that there is somebody 4 evry1. i know jeff that there is a special person out there 4 u. i`m sorry i dnt know u at all but ur blog really touched me as i had that feeling wen i was single. the funny thing is that even if we (me and my other half) leave each other we`d b asking 4 forgiveness within minutes if not seconds coz we can`t live without each other. u were saying that there r a lot of people who only think about themselves in the world before other people, those people don`t have a heart. life goes on and we have to get on with our lives and help people wen they need it.

By: Jeff

Jeff — Wed, 26 Sep 2007 10:35:28 +0000

That’s an interesting idea. One of wonder, instead of insecurity. You have a feeling of the potential inevitable, yet you go on.

By: Maeko

Maeko — Wed, 26 Sep 2007 01:56:02 +0000

I like this one.

Sometimes I feel this about my Lover. He will wake up one day and think I’m not right.

I am on the other side of the chasm.

Will he realise that I am not good enough? Too dramatic? Too selfish? Too immature? Too high-maintenance? Too uptight?

By: bronwen

bronwen — Thu, 26 Apr 2007 02:04:55 +0000

I love you too! I feel like we were meant to meet and be friends forever.

By: Jeff

Jeff — Wed, 25 Apr 2007 10:59:44 +0000

You made a decision to let go. Even if it was a good thing, there was an even better reason you give it up. That’s how I see it. Doesn’t mean it’s easy though.

By: Causalien

Causalien — Wed, 25 Apr 2007 04:12:35 +0000

Letting go of something good was hard for me. The first time I’d done it, I had to transform. The old person wasn’t able to grasp what letting go is.

Maybe it’s different for you.

By: Jeff

Jeff — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 11:54:06 +0000

@Erin — Thank you.

@Xibee — It’s not that I’ve never said it before, and it’s not that I wasn’t ready this time. I decided to wait to see if it would last, so that they would mean more. The words are thrown around too much these days.

@Causalien — I’m not sure about that. I’ve certainly transformed, but I don’t think I have in this sense. Marrying the right person or not marrying at all has always been my way.

By: Causalien

Causalien — Mon, 23 Apr 2007 14:27:25 +0000

To be able to let go of that and let her fly. You must’ve transformed.

By: Xibee

Xibee — Sat, 21 Apr 2007 03:18:53 +0000

Oh dear, you really never said it???
How much more you have to experience and enjoy…

You’ll be ready next time.
You know what to change now. The right person will make enough of a dent that you’ll just have to give in.

By: Erin

Erin — Fri, 20 Apr 2007 19:30:06 +0000

Oh dear, now you’ve gone and made me cry.

A beautiful letter. I hope she reads it someday.