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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 02:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know...he'll probably go down as the most polite guest of all time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know&#8230;he&#8217;ll probably go down as the most polite guest of all time!</p>
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		<title>By: Pearl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pearl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Feb 2007 23:40:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>re: Tycho Brahe -- Ay yay yay, dying out of politeness is taking gracefulness too far.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>re: Tycho Brahe &#8212; Ay yay yay, dying out of politeness is taking gracefulness too far.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Feb 2007 02:22:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Xibee &#8212; Some people like their guests to eat as soon as the food is served so it doesn't get cold. I think it's really practical. Some things we only do because we're used to them, without questioning.

I also agree about being thankful for everything, but I think that bread is the perfect symbol of everything that we have. It's the first thing that we want, and what we need to survive. A/C or indoor plumbing aren't completely necessary.

@Pearl &#8212; I don't agree with people who chide others. Respect goes both ways; I'll respect someone's culture, but they should respect mine (or lack thereof).

Most people (that I hang around with, at least) don't mind elbows on the table, but I'll only do it when I notice that the host is doing it.

There are a lot of funny old traditions when it comes to food. Tycho Brahe died because he didn't go to the bathroom even though he had a bladder condition. Back in the 16th century, it was considered rude to go to the bathroom before the meal was finished.

@amy &#8212; I like the idea of grace too. It's an important thing to be appreciative of what we have, and it doesn't have to be bound to a religion. It isn't completely necessary to do it every day, but it's a nice little ritual to have. Gets one thinking every day, and helps put things in perspective.

@Aaron &#8212; Hahhahah...makes me wonder if Christians say grace before popping Smarties in their mouths, or snacking on their chips. Just this weekend I found out that grace is said before every meal, including lunch and breakfast. Made me realize that I've never been to a Christian's house for something other than dinner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Xibee &mdash; Some people like their guests to eat as soon as the food is served so it doesn&#8217;t get cold. I think it&#8217;s really practical. Some things we only do because we&#8217;re used to them, without questioning.</p>
<p>I also agree about being thankful for everything, but I think that bread is the perfect symbol of everything that we have. It&#8217;s the first thing that we want, and what we need to survive. A/C or indoor plumbing aren&#8217;t completely necessary.</p>
<p>@Pearl &mdash; I don&#8217;t agree with people who chide others. Respect goes both ways; I&#8217;ll respect someone&#8217;s culture, but they should respect mine (or lack thereof).</p>
<p>Most people (that I hang around with, at least) don&#8217;t mind elbows on the table, but I&#8217;ll only do it when I notice that the host is doing it.</p>
<p>There are a lot of funny old traditions when it comes to food. Tycho Brahe died because he didn&#8217;t go to the bathroom even though he had a bladder condition. Back in the 16th century, it was considered rude to go to the bathroom before the meal was finished.</p>
<p>@amy &mdash; I like the idea of grace too. It&#8217;s an important thing to be appreciative of what we have, and it doesn&#8217;t have to be bound to a religion. It isn&#8217;t completely necessary to do it every day, but it&#8217;s a nice little ritual to have. Gets one thinking every day, and helps put things in perspective.</p>
<p>@Aaron &mdash; Hahhahah&#8230;makes me wonder if Christians say grace before popping Smarties in their mouths, or snacking on their chips. Just this weekend I found out that grace is said before every meal, including lunch and breakfast. Made me realize that I&#8217;ve never been to a Christian&#8217;s house for something other than dinner.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Feb 2007 01:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bro, does snacking count?  Cause man, when I'm at your place, I find my hands feeding my mouth subconsciously.  I'll be heading to the living room to setup my nest prior to us throwing on the upcoming movie to enjoy together and all of a sudden I find myself eating ... chips?  "where did I get these?" says one inner voice, immediately following is the other inner voice saying "go with it".  And so I continue to head to the nest and wait for dinner to be ready before starting the movie.

- SnackMasterPro</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bro, does snacking count?  Cause man, when I&#8217;m at your place, I find my hands feeding my mouth subconsciously.  I&#8217;ll be heading to the living room to setup my nest prior to us throwing on the upcoming movie to enjoy together and all of a sudden I find myself eating &#8230; chips?  &#8220;where did I get these?&#8221; says one inner voice, immediately following is the other inner voice saying &#8220;go with it&#8221;.  And so I continue to head to the nest and wait for dinner to be ready before starting the movie.</p>
<p>- SnackMasterPro</p>
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		<title>By: amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Feb 2007 01:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm just getting to a place in my life where I'm immensely grateful for so many things.
I wasn't brought up 'religiously' my family never attended church.
But I really like the idea of 'grace' before eating.
It is so impoprtant to be grateful and show gratitude.
I think we will start teaching our children that habit, being grateful for something as 'simple' as food to nourish our bodies.
Thanks for the post
and the reminder.

cheers from the west</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m just getting to a place in my life where I&#8217;m immensely grateful for so many things.<br />
I wasn&#8217;t brought up &#8216;religiously&#8217; my family never attended church.<br />
But I really like the idea of &#8216;grace&#8217; before eating.<br />
It is so impoprtant to be grateful and show gratitude.<br />
I think we will start teaching our children that habit, being grateful for something as &#8217;simple&#8217; as food to nourish our bodies.<br />
Thanks for the post<br />
and the reminder.</p>
<p>cheers from the west</p>
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		<title>By: Pearl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pearl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Feb 2007 04:52:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oops. I could see how the peripheral vision would see that.

 I'd rather pause for gracefulness than grace but hey, as Xibee says, thanks for all things.

I've been chided by a Muslim man for not saying a prayer before eating as he does each time. A nun came to my rescue saying she's sure I said it silently in my heart. Nope but thanks for her save anyway. :)

I still recall as a child being called out in some sort of song by fellow children, my being compared to an animal for having elbows on the table. People is funny when it comes to food, eating it or thinking about eating it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops. I could see how the peripheral vision would see that.</p>
<p> I&#8217;d rather pause for gracefulness than grace but hey, as Xibee says, thanks for all things.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been chided by a Muslim man for not saying a prayer before eating as he does each time. A nun came to my rescue saying she&#8217;s sure I said it silently in my heart. Nope but thanks for her save anyway. <img src='http://equivocality.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I still recall as a child being called out in some sort of song by fellow children, my being compared to an animal for having elbows on the table. People is funny when it comes to food, eating it or thinking about eating it.</p>
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		<title>By: Xibee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Xibee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Feb 2007 15:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I frankly have always thought it rude that when a guest is present they make them endure something awkward.  As a Christian myself, but not that kind, I would never ask that.  And it seems belabored to me:  Why not say thanks out loud for everything, anything, then?  I am as grateful for many things.  Plumbing comes to mind.  Air Conditioning.  Having a friend who will come over for pizza.  But I don't say anything aloud about it for benefit of anyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I frankly have always thought it rude that when a guest is present they make them endure something awkward.  As a Christian myself, but not that kind, I would never ask that.  And it seems belabored to me:  Why not say thanks out loud for everything, anything, then?  I am as grateful for many things.  Plumbing comes to mind.  Air Conditioning.  Having a friend who will come over for pizza.  But I don&#8217;t say anything aloud about it for benefit of anyone.</p>
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