Comments on: Jealousy As Insecurity As Love http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/ To be equivocal is to truly live. Wed, 23 May 2012 19:18:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Jeff http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1994 Jeff Wed, 07 Feb 2007 12:44:44 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1994 It's definitely not easy to do. Some feelings you just want to deny, or pretend they aren't there. It’s definitely not easy to do. Some feelings you just want to deny, or pretend they aren’t there.

]]> By: Jessy http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1980 Jessy Mon, 05 Feb 2007 19:00:07 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1980 I think its so awesome that you are so in tune with yourself that you can actually decipher your feelings from one-another. I think that is a talent. And thank you for feeling insecure about your friendship, it makes me feel not so alone. I always though i was fucked in the head for feeling insecure in some of my friendships, but i think thats healthy as well. Im learning that my definition of relationships changes 10 fold with every new person that i encounter. I think its so awesome that you are so in tune with yourself that you can actually decipher your feelings from one-another. I think that is a talent. And thank you for feeling insecure about your friendship, it makes me feel not so alone. I always though i was fucked in the head for feeling insecure in some of my friendships, but i think thats healthy as well. Im learning that my definition of relationships changes 10 fold with every new person that i encounter.

]]> By: Jeff http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1978 Jeff Mon, 05 Feb 2007 03:15:35 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1978 @amy — You're right...love isn't something so limited as to what I said. It can be dangerous to interpret what love is. It's still hard to accept my silly emotional reaction though. As ephemeral as it was, I don't think I should have felt it at all. @Xibee — You know, I've never thought of my reaction as the result of my lack of healthy connections, but it makes sense the more I think about it. I just hope I'm not looking for something to blame. @amy — You’re right…love isn’t something so limited as to what I said. It can be dangerous to interpret what love is.

It’s still hard to accept my silly emotional reaction though. As ephemeral as it was, I don’t think I should have felt it at all.

@Xibee — You know, I’ve never thought of my reaction as the result of my lack of healthy connections, but it makes sense the more I think about it. I just hope I’m not looking for something to blame.

]]> By: Xibee http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1970 Xibee Sat, 03 Feb 2007 22:27:38 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1970 Those of us who've had so little healthy connection to affection often feel a bit grabby, it's normal. This is just a mid-stage, soon to be replaced by the magnanimous feeling that you would be willing to give up anything for your friend's happiness; even to the willingness to give up your own place in their life. Those of us who’ve had so little healthy connection to affection often feel a bit grabby, it’s normal.

This is just a mid-stage, soon to be replaced by the magnanimous feeling that you would be willing to give up anything for your friend’s happiness; even to the willingness to give up your own place in their life.

]]> By: amy http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1964 amy Fri, 02 Feb 2007 23:50:20 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2007/02/02/jealousy-as-insecurity-as-love/#comment-1964 love is far more than insecurity or jealousy. Those are mere whims of ego. And I know that you know that..already.. love is without judgement.. don't be so hard on yourself for emotional reations you have to things..be without judgement for yourself too. I certainly 'get' that you treasure your connection with Pat. An opportunity to give from the heart is a treasure as well. Nice to hear your embracing it with enthusiasm. cheers! love is far more than insecurity or jealousy.
Those are mere whims of ego.
And I know that you know that..already..
love is without judgement..
don’t be so hard on yourself for emotional reations you have to things..be without judgement for yourself too.

I certainly ‘get’ that you treasure your connection with Pat.
An opportunity to give from the heart is a treasure as well. Nice to hear your embracing it with enthusiasm.

cheers!

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