Comments on: Family Tied

By: Jeff

Jeff — Fri, 06 Oct 2006 11:47:41 +0000

Bean: Thanks, but you’re right…dwelling is dangerous. I’m still doing my best to forget all this.

Amy: I’ve already accepted that my parents are better off without each other. That’s the easy part. The hard part is being in the middle, but I’m sure others have gone through worse, such as yourself.

Pita: You’re probably one of the people who understands the situation best, coming from a similar culture. I suppose I still think of my dad as a father, because he hasn’t actively done anything to hurt me; it’s all been passive.

By: Pita

Pita — Thu, 05 Oct 2006 23:46:08 +0000

This is the part where I stopped thinking of my dad as a father.

By: Amy

Amy — Tue, 03 Oct 2006 23:44:37 +0000

I empathize with ya
I witnessed my mom and dad fighting like that , when I was 5 yrs. old..
that was before he took off when she filed for divorce….

nice, eh?
age 5?

look at it this way, they’ll be happier w/o each other, somethin they shoulda done looong ago…
always sucks to be in the middle though

hope you’re enjoying the autumn weather!

Amy

By: Bean

Bean — Tue, 03 Oct 2006 11:46:43 +0000

I hate to think of you feeling sad about all this. I hope the family visit is going somewhat smoothly and you can put these thoughts behind you. Remembering is important, even dark things, but dwelling is dangerous. I’m sorry it’s been hard.