Comments on: A Shattering Of Stability http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/ To be equivocal is to truly live. Thu, 18 Mar 2010 17:05:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: kiddo http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-849 kiddo Thu, 15 Jun 2006 02:09:54 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-849 that is tough. even when you're older, it's like having your ideal of romantic stability absolutely smashed into a million pieces. but i guess that's the way family matters work out in life. i'm actually more sorry that you had to find out about it that way. *hugs* that is tough. even when you’re older, it’s like having your ideal of romantic stability absolutely smashed into a million pieces. but i guess that’s the way family matters work out in life. i’m actually more sorry that you had to find out about it that way. *hugs*

]]> By: Jeff http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-836 Jeff Mon, 12 Jun 2006 02:39:36 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-836 You're right, I'm lucky to be going through this when I'm independent. Things would have been much worse if they went through it during elementary school. I find that there are two types of people whose parents divorced when they were young. Those who didn't know any better and grew up believing that it was normal, and those who grew up knowing exactly what was happening. I was the latter, and it wouldn't have been good. Thanks for the support. You’re right, I’m lucky to be going through this when I’m independent. Things would have been much worse if they went through it during elementary school.

I find that there are two types of people whose parents divorced when they were young. Those who didn’t know any better and grew up believing that it was normal, and those who grew up knowing exactly what was happening. I was the latter, and it wouldn’t have been good.

Thanks for the support.

]]> By: Barb http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-834 Barb Sat, 10 Jun 2006 16:45:33 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-834 Hugs Hugs

]]> By: Phaedra http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-833 Phaedra Fri, 09 Jun 2006 16:21:01 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-833 The same happened to me, only much earlier in my life (I was 9). Different perspective, but some of the same understanding. I don't know what else to say, but I had to comment. The same happened to me, only much earlier in my life (I was 9). Different perspective, but some of the same understanding. I don’t know what else to say, but I had to comment.

]]> By: Amy http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-832 Amy Fri, 09 Jun 2006 16:07:52 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2006/06/09/a-shattering-of-stability/#comment-832 Welcome to life! I went thru 2 divorces.. the first from my real father, when i was 5..after the date in divorce court, he took off, and dissapeared for 10 yrs. The second was when I was 23. From my step-father of 12 yrs.. I was right smack in the midle. My mom didn't want him to know WHERE she was, so messages were passed thru me. OH the JOY of it! Just be 'happy' that this didn't happen while you were still living there as a teen. It's a loss, one that must be grieved. LOVE the photo you took though I love the way you look at the world, as reflected in your photos you have an artists soul cheers, and (hugs) if ya need them. Amy Welcome to life!
I went thru 2 divorces..
the first from my real father, when i was 5..after the date in divorce court, he took off, and dissapeared for 10 yrs.

The second was when I was 23.
From my step-father of 12 yrs..
I was right smack in the midle.
My mom didn’t want him to know WHERE she was, so messages were passed thru me.
OH the JOY of it!

Just be ‘happy’ that this didn’t happen while you were still living there as a teen.
It’s a loss, one that must be grieved.
LOVE the photo you took though
I love the way you look at the world, as reflected in your photos
you have an artists soul

cheers, and (hugs) if ya need them.
Amy

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