BTW, “Karry Ling” didn’t take too long. (”,)

Take care

I don’t see how someone could interpret this as saying that no one will ever know or understand. I find that people are generally wrong about me most of the time, although not all of the time. That’s why I wrote, “You’re usually wrong”, instead of “You’re always wrong”. I’m sure that there are many people who can definately understand or relate to the things I’m going through after I give them the proper explanation, but many people don’t bother to find out my version of a situation, and assume it’s the same as theirs. Many completely misjudge me based on their pre-conceived notion of a set of limited circumstances.

These comments are a perfect example.

Nowhere did I state that no one can relate. Nowhere did I state that no one can understand me. Nowhere did I state that no one else can feel like I do. I simply said that someone shouldn’t feel as though they can relate to what I’m going through based on their own experiences with the situation. The situation may be the same, but the experience is usually quite different, and it’s the experience that determines the final thoughts and ideas. I completely agree that we’re social beings and function best when we reciprocate our thoughts and feelings with each other, but there’s no communication after assumption. Then assumption becomes a lack of reciprocation.

And for good measure, a person who simply assumes that others are like them does not try to understand, and certainly does not care to try to understand. In fact, the opposite is true, because they’ve already made their judgement without any attempt at understanding from the proper angle.