Comments on: It's a D/s life: Stepping Outside The Circle http://equivocality.com/feeder/?FeederAction=clicked&feed=Comments+on+Articles+%28RSS2%29&seed=http%3A%2F%2Fequivocality.com%2F2004%2F10%2F20%2Fits-a-ds-life-stepping-outside-the-circle%2F%23comment-&seed_title=It%26%2339%3Bs+a+D%2Fs+life%3A+Stepping+Outside+The+Circle To be equivocal is to truly live. Sat, 22 Nov 2008 10:18:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: loo http://equivocality.com/feeder/?FeederAction=clicked&feed=Comments+on+Articles+%28RSS2%29&seed=http%3A%2F%2Fequivocality.com%2F2004%2F10%2F20%2Fits-a-ds-life-stepping-outside-the-circle%2F%23comment-342&seed_title=It%26%2339%3Bs+a+D%2Fs+life%3A+Stepping+Outside+The+Circle#comment-342 loo Thu, 21 Oct 2004 20:12:41 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2004/10/20/its-a-ds-life-stepping-outside-the-circle/#comment-342 thank you, you're so awesome. thank you, you’re so awesome.

]]> By: Jeff http://equivocality.com/feeder/?FeederAction=clicked&feed=Comments+on+Articles+%28RSS2%29&seed=http%3A%2F%2Fequivocality.com%2F2004%2F10%2F20%2Fits-a-ds-life-stepping-outside-the-circle%2F%23comment-341&seed_title=It%26%2339%3Bs+a+D%2Fs+life%3A+Stepping+Outside+The+Circle#comment-341 Jeff Thu, 21 Oct 2004 11:33:12 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2004/10/20/its-a-ds-life-stepping-outside-the-circle/#comment-341 I didn't really mean either of the two options that you gave. It was more of a statement about wanting this for myself, and not just doing it to make you happy. That means being true to myself, instead of living a lie, so that things don't fall apart in the long-run if this doesn't end up being what I want, or enough of what you need. I suppose I could have said, "To live this life for me, and not just her". I didn’t really mean either of the two options that you gave. It was more of a statement about wanting this for myself, and not just doing it to make you happy. That means being true to myself, instead of living a lie, so that things don’t fall apart in the long-run if this doesn’t end up being what I want, or enough of what you need. I suppose I could have said, “To live this life for me, and not just her”.

]]> By: loo http://equivocality.com/feeder/?FeederAction=clicked&feed=Comments+on+Articles+%28RSS2%29&seed=http%3A%2F%2Fequivocality.com%2F2004%2F10%2F20%2Fits-a-ds-life-stepping-outside-the-circle%2F%23comment-340&seed_title=It%26%2339%3Bs+a+D%2Fs+life%3A+Stepping+Outside+The+Circle#comment-340 loo Thu, 21 Oct 2004 11:15:55 +0000 http://equivocality.com/2004/10/20/its-a-ds-life-stepping-outside-the-circle/#comment-340 in their totality, the women's rights gains were not (in my opinion) all positive ones. We see women all around the world, in our lives and at a distance struggle with the power they've been given. Indeed some flourish with it, that i cannot deny. Some of the advancements that were made, needed to be made. What is my actuality, is that i am (on an outwardly basis) an individual like any other, man or woman. That actuality remains that way because i have no other choice but to live it. In my personal life; i see it as a great feat to be able to give myself to my partner, to tread through the social barriers, to blindside newly-layed tradition and focus on what makes me feel whole. I feel like more of a woman in the role you've allowed me Jeff, i'm so very thankful that you've been open to this counter-social way i live my life. I'm interested to hear you say that you're living this life for you, and not the both of us, and i'm currious as to what you meant by that. Did you mean you have to make these discoveries for yourself and not for us, or did you mean you have to live this lifestyle for you foregoing my thoughts and feelings. In hopes that its not the latter, i await your reply anxiously. yours, loo in their totality, the women’s rights gains were not (in my opinion) all positive ones. We see women all around the world, in our lives and at a distance struggle with the power they’ve been given. Indeed some flourish with it, that i cannot deny. Some of the advancements that were made, needed to be made. What is my actuality, is that i am (on an outwardly basis) an individual like any other, man or woman. That actuality remains that way because i have no other choice but to live it. In my personal life; i see it as a great feat to be able to give myself to my partner, to tread through the social barriers, to blindside newly-layed tradition and focus on what makes me feel whole.

I feel like more of a woman in the role you’ve allowed me Jeff, i’m so very thankful that you’ve been open to this counter-social way i live my life.

I’m interested to hear you say that you’re living this life for you, and not the both of us, and i’m currious as to what you meant by that. Did you mean you have to make these discoveries for yourself and not for us, or did you mean you have to live this lifestyle for you foregoing my thoughts and feelings. In hopes that its not the latter, i await your reply anxiously.

yours,
loo

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